Teens often think that reckless behavior is safe.
I knew about this reckless driving soon after it occurred and have the record of it forever. The data comes from the OBD-II (On-Board Diagnostics II) port via the Bouncie monitoring device.
And just like teens think crazy driving is safe because they've done it before, pediatricians think that following the dangerous CDC schedule is safe because they've done that before, too.
Both misunderstand risk and probability.
Both must be confronted with data.
You won't change the teen's mind. And you won't change the pediatrician's mind. But you will visibly show the exact nature of the risk and make it 100% clear what you are not willing to accept.
Then you can explain what works for you, what you are willing to accept and what you are not willing to accept.
Even better, you can have objective vaccine data before you see the pediatrician.
Having objective data puts you in control.